we've been together for more than an year. I love him and he loves me back, I don't doubt that. but his dream has always been to work outside the country, I knew that. I just never thought he would start doing that so soon. when spring time is over, he plans to go work in Greece for 3 months. now, I know you'll say 3 months is not that much, especially if we love each other, but I'm not the type of person that would be comfortable with seeing my boyfriend once a month or so, even if it's just for a summer. I'd just miss him too much, so I really couldn't have a relationship with him being away. I can't go with him either, due to some health problems and my family condition. and I really can't tell him not to go, either. this has always been his dream, I can't take it away from him. I see no other option than splitting up, as painfully as that may be. he said he'll try to think of something, to work abroad, but also be with me, but I see no way that could happen. please, feel free to contradict me. any piece of advise? I'd really need some I'm sorry, but I just can't do it, no matter how much I'd love him. 3 months without a kiss or a hug? I can't do it and I don't wanna do it. I'm 20.
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Please PLEASE whatever you do, don't split up! IF you really do love each other like you say then that would be the worst thing to do. What you really need to ask yourself is whether or not you can resist temptation and also whether or not he can. If you both know that you will no way, no how cheat on each other no matter what, then stay together. 3 months is kind of a long time when you are used to seeing each other a lot but if you really love each other, trust each other, and support one another then let him follow his dream for the 3 months. He will be back before you know it and you will be so excited to see him when he does get back and you'll appreciate the time you get to spend with him. Just be supportive and love each other. That is all you need
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I've lived overseas in the middle east for a year and a half, and i plan to come back when i finish this year. I've had a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half (he lives in the states). I cannot begin to tell you how much you will appreciate your relationship. If you love him enough, you should stay with him. I see my boyfriend every 6 months. i wish i was only apart from him for 3 months! Take my advice, you are so lucky that it's just that short amount of time. 3 months will pass by in no time, if you want to contact him with absolutely no cost, download "Skype" on your computer. I use it all the time. I'm 18.
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YOU CAN DO IT!!!! I've been apart from my ex-bf for 1.5 years and we managed to make it work. He want to bootcamp for 2months and the only way we communicated is by writing letters to each other. 3 months is not that long. Go for it! If you really love him you won't give him up because of that. Please answer mine too. :( http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ajau1M0WOMWR45GcgZupasfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081003045641AAje60S
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it seems difficult dear.. but its worth it.. he shall love you more for keeping aside your pain and working for his happiness.. you too shall feel good abt yourself.. you''l feel good and happier giving..
