Monday, February 21, 2011

Help me -my ex is moving to greece with work for a yr and he wants us to stay together


Help me -my ex is moving to greece with work for a yr and he wants us to stay together.?
I am broken hearted and cannot deal with him leaving becuase I know it spells THE END for us. How can I get him to stay for me because he still wants to marry me and still be together. Im sure in a years time if there is no work in UK he will stay there and not come home. What am I going to do? sob sob, broken hearted girl in distress.
Marriage & Divorce - 5 Answers
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1 :
forget him. he dont value ur relation. and now no body value his relation. tit for tat. so pls dont go with him. because he isnt faithful.
2 :
He's your ex. Why you crying? Maybe that's why he's leaving...to get away from you. I'm not being mean but some guys are like that. Don't be all clingy. This is the best thing that could ever happen to you. The man of your dreams awaits. He won't come if you don't let this nut go.
3 :
He is your ex and the end is already here. He is your ex or not ? Time will help you forget him. Nothing you can do if he opted to leave.
4 :
wow so u want to "keep " him but yet u dont trust the fact that you can make it a year with out him??? so obviously you dont believe in your relationship, so basically the relationship will eventually die any ways whether he stays or goes, because if u really thought he was the "one" , then a year a part wouldnt be the "end all" for u .. a year out of 50 (if he was the one) would seem like nothing to a life time together.. so since u cant handle it, its better to let him go and set him free then continuing to waste this guys time since u cant trust him, or his love for u..
5 :
My guess is that his being your "ex" is half the reason he's going to Greece. How to make him stay? If he's your "ex," you can't make him do anything. Actually, you can't make anyone do anything, but sometimes a relationship can be close enough to be a persuasion to the person to change. You would need to obtain an actual relationship with the person, not be a mere "ex," to do that. It looks like you'll remain separated.